One of the Few: Teaching as a Black Woman in Switzerland’s Gymnasium System

For readers outside of Switzerland, it is important to clarify that a “gymnasium” here is not a sports hall. It is the highest level of secondary school, comparable to college-prep high schools in the US, and it leads to the Matura, the qualification for university study.

When I first moved to Switzerland twenty years ago, I didn’t think much about who else might look like me in the teachers’ lounge. I simply got on with my job, assuming diversity was limited because Switzerland is small. Of course, there are more Black teachers in the United States, where I grew up, but here I accepted that things might be different. After all, when people think of Switzerland, the images that come to mind are almost always the same: Caucasian people, snow, skiing, cheese, watches. People of color rarely figure into the postcard version of this country.

It wasn’t until about six or seven years into my teaching career that I began to notice something: no new Black teachers ever joined the staff. In fact, I never saw anyone of African descent in my school system at all. A few teachers of color appeared here and there, a Mexican colleague, one Asian teacher, but Black and brown teachers? None.

There is one exception: a colleague who is half Swiss and half South African. She grew up here, was born here, and is fully Swiss. In that sense, her story is very different from mine. I am American by birth and only later became a dual citizen after marrying a Swiss man. I am, and always will be, something of an outsider in this system. She, on the other hand, belongs to it by birthright. And though she is mixed, she remains the only one of her background I have seen. But fully Black teachers? None. I myself am fully Black. My mother is Black, my father is Black. That kind of lineage, that visible marker of Blackness, I have never encountered at the gymnasium level in Switzerland.

Belonging vs. Awareness

For me personally, this awareness doesn’t shape my day-to-day life in the classroom. I have always believed I belong wherever I go. I don’t measure myself against the demographics in the room, and I don’t let the majority race determine whether or not I fit in. Anywhere and everywhere I go, I belong.

But every now and then, it hits me. In larger staff meetings, or when the entire teaching body comes together, I notice it again: I am still the only one. It is a quiet realization, not something that overshadows my work, but it flickers in my mind.

I suspect my colleagues don’t think about it at all. At my own school, people are used to seeing me. I don’t stand out to them anymore, and I doubt most give much thought to how unusual it is that a Black woman, and a foreign Black woman at that, is teaching at the gymnasium level in Switzerland.

Still, I do remember my very first year at the school, before classes had even started. There was an opening activity for all the teachers, and one of the colleagues in the English department assumed I was an English assistant, not a fully qualified teacher like them. I don’t know if that assumption had to do with me being a Black woman, or if it was just unconscious bias of some kind. But it stuck with me. I was just as qualified as everyone else in the room, yet the assumption was there. And that, in itself, speaks volumes.

What It Means for Students

For my students, having a Black woman, a teacher of color, at the front of the classroom matters. It is not something they see often, and I know that for many of them, I may be the only Black teacher they ever have during their entire school career. That in itself is significant.

When I first began teaching here twenty years ago, the student body was far less diverse. Most of the faces I saw belonged to white Swiss students. But over the years, that has changed. Today, the classrooms are filled with more variety: more students with Indian backgrounds and darker skin, more mixed children who carry multiple cultures with them, alongside the white Swiss majority.

My own son is part of that reality too. He doesn’t attend the school where I teach, but as a mixed child, half Black and half Swiss, he reflects the shift I see happening across the country. Diversity is not an abstraction; it is living, breathing, and growing in Swiss society.

In that context, my role as one of the few Black teachers takes on even more weight. Representation matters. Students of color see me and know that yes, it is possible to stand here, to lead, to teach at the highest level of Swiss secondary education. And even students who are not of color benefit from it. They are exposed to a perspective that is different, shaped not only by my being a Black woman, but also by being an American woman, born and raised in Chicago. That perspective is unique, and it enriches their education in ways that go beyond textbooks.

Words That Stay With Me

Over the years, I have had students say things to me that have really stayed with me. One boy once told me that he admired my fashion sense, and that it gave him more confidence to express himself. I was surprised by that, not because students don’t comment on my style, but because it came from a male student. His comment struck me as special. It reminded me that my presence in the classroom isn’t just about the subjects I teach; it is also about the way I show up as a whole person.

Not all words have been so encouraging. Early in my career, in my first year or so, a colleague told me directly that they felt I wasn’t qualified to be there, that I had nothing important to add to the department or the school, and that perhaps the administration had made a mistake in hiring me. This was not an administrator, not someone in authority, but a fellow teacher who somehow felt entitled to speak that way. The audacity of it struck me then, and it still does now.

Looking back, I see it for what it was: an attempt to intimidate me, to make me insecure, to plant doubt about whether I belonged in that space. But here I am, two decades later, still teaching at the same school. That longevity speaks for itself. And beyond that, the assumption itself was absurd. I was, and still am, the only native English speaker in the department. That fact alone brings an automatic value that the colleague who criticized me could not offer, since they were not a native speaker. Combined with my education, my qualifications, and my lived experience, my presence, didn’t diminish the department. It expanded it.

The Weight of Stereotypes

Of course, there are challenges that come with being the only Black teacher in the room. One of the biggest is stereotyping. I have often been lumped into assumptions, treated as though I represent all Black people everywhere. It is as if my presence alone makes me the spokesperson for an entire race. But the truth is simple: Black people are not a monolith. No group of people is. Each of us has our own opinions, our own tastes, our own nuances.

And yet, I have felt the weight of those assumptions. Just because I am Black, people at school have assumed certain things about me, that I must automatically think or act a certain way, that I must embody a “typical” Black identity. The truth? I do like rap music, but that doesn’t mean all Black people do, nor that I should be reduced to that stereotype. I have been met with similar assumptions in other areas too, that of course I must love Obama, or that I must automatically hate Trump, because isn’t that what all Black people think? The reality is far more complex.

Another way I stand out is through my fashion. I love style, I love expressing myself through clothes, and it shows. In Switzerland, where people are generally more reserved, that makes me more noticeable than I might be if I were back in the U.S. Over time, my colleagues have gotten used to it, especially those who have known me for many years. But I know my presence has always been a little different, a little brighter against a more subdued backdrop.

Being stereotyped isn’t just tiring. It is flattening. It reduces a person to an image instead of allowing them to be a full human being. And yet, these assumptions come with the territory of being one of the few.

The Rewards of Teaching

Despite the challenges, the rewards of being in this position far outweigh the difficulties. As a teacher, I can’t help but feel a deep sense of pride and purpose in what I do with my students. Some of them still reach out to me years later, sending me little messages on TikTok or direct messages on Instagram to say they miss me. Those notes mean so much. They remind me that my impact on them went beyond grammar rules or essay structures. It was personal, too.

That is the thing about teaching, you never fully know how you touch someone’s life. Sometimes it is a lesson, but other times it is a smile, a kind word, or even a compliment that shifts how they see themselves. I hope my students have gained confidence from being in my class, both as language learners and as individuals.

One of the great joys of teaching at this level is seeing students over many years. I have had students for as long as six years, from the time they arrive in Untergymnasium all the way through to Matura graduation. Watching them grow up, mature, and step into adulthood is incredibly rewarding. And knowing that I have played a role in helping them communicate better in English as they move into the wider world, it makes me proud. It makes me grateful to do this work.

Reflection – Race and Colorism

Before I close, I want to name something that often gets overlooked in these conversations: colorism. My lineage is African-American, both my parents are Black, but my skin tone is lighter. Sometimes, when people first meet me, they may not immediately identify me as Black. They might see me as “something else of color.” Yet at the same time, it is always clear that I am not white.

That nuance matters. In some ways, it shapes how people perceive me and how they categorize me. Colorism is its own form of bias, one that plays out even within Black communities and in the way others respond to Blackness. So when we talk about race and representation, it is not only about being Black in a predominantly white space. It is also about how skin tone influences the assumptions people make, the stereotypes they project, and the ways they decide who belongs where.

Hopes for Change

If I could wave a wand, I would want the people who make hiring decisions in Swiss schools to keep qualified candidates of color in mind. I am not asking for quotas or token gestures, that is not the answer. What matters is recognizing that representation strengthens education. Diversity brings new perspectives, and students deserve to learn from teachers with a range of life experiences.

In the United States, there has been debate around diversity initiatives, with some supporting them and others, like Trump, dismantling them. Switzerland does not frame the conversation in quite the same way. Here, the bigger challenge might be that there simply are not that many people of color in the applicant pool for positions like mine. I have not done the numbers, I will admit that, but my eyes tell me what the statistics likely would: the presence of teachers of color at the gymnasium level is extremely rare.

And that is what I would change. Not by lowering standards or filling quotas, but by ensuring that when qualified people of color are ready and willing to teach at this level, they are seen, recognized, and given the opportunity. Because I know what it means for students to see a teacher like me, and I know the difference it makes.

Closing

At the end of the day, I may be one of the few, but I am not invisible. I belong here, and I have proven that over two decades of teaching. My presence challenges assumptions, my perspective enriches my students’ education, and my longevity shows that I am not an exception by accident. I am an educator by design.

Representation in Swiss education may be rare, but it matters. And until the day comes when I am no longer “one of the few,” I will continue to stand where I stand with pride, with purpose, and with the hope that my being here opens the door just a little wider for whoever comes next.

If you’ve ever been “one of the few” in your workplace, school, or community, I´d love to hear how that experience has shaped you. Share your story in the comments.

Mummies, Dust, and a whole lot of Hustle: Cairo's Charm vs. Its Chicanery




Cairo, Egypt

Visiting Cairo in December 2024 was like stepping into a living postcard—one that’s frayed around the edges, layered with history, and slightly chaotic in the best (and worst) ways. I went for the pyramids, of course. Who wouldn’t? It’s one of those “bucket list” places that feels more myth than reality until you’re standing in the sand, craning your neck to take in the jagged geometry of the Giza Plateau.




Let’s start there: the Pyramids. Seeing them in person? Surreal. Walking up to these 4,000-year-old monuments, I kept thinking: these shouldn’t still be standing. But they are—stoic, monumental, and buzzing with tourists and camels. I even went inside one of them, a steep, narrow climb that’s not for the claustrophobic. It’s hot, and very crowded…(at least when I was there) , and somehow exhilarating. Knowing that you’re actually inside an ancient pyramid, one that you’ve seen movies about, read about in school, etc, is kind of mind-blowing. You emerge breathless—not just from the climb, but from the weight of time pressing down around you.

Then there’s Cairo’s souk—the famous Khan El-Khalili. It’s vibrant, loud, and filled with spices, lamps, jewelry, leather, and voices calling you to just take a look. I wandered through it for a while, haggled (badly), drank mint tea, and tried to not to get lost. Immersing myself in Egypt was easy. The culture is rich, the people are warm, and I actually found a vegan restaurant!

In these souk streets…..

Another interesting spot was the National Museum of Egyptian Civilization, particularly the Royal Mummy Hall. It’s quiet, dimly lit, and honestly a little eerie—in the best way. Seeing the actual mummies of pharaohs you’ve read about in history class is both fascinating and humbling. These were real people—rulers, priests, queens—preserved for thousands of years and now resting behind glass, with names like Ramses II and Hatshepsut etched into the display. It’s not flashy, but it is powerful.

I see dead people……..lol.

But—and it’s a big butyou have to be ready for the scams.

From the hotel lobby to the camel rides, tour guides, and even a couple of Uber drivers, scammers reigned supreme. Some are charming, some aggressive, but almost all of them are persistent. I’m guessing a lot of this is rooted in economic hardship, and it’s tough not to feel for people trying to make a living in a system that seems stacked against them. Still, when you’ve been promised one price and charged another for the fifth time in a day, or simply not got what you paid for, ……..it starts to wear on you.

That said, I’d still recommend Cairo to anyone with an adventurous spirit. Just go in with your eyes open. Set clear boundaries, bargain hard, and when in doubt, walk away. But go. The Pyramids alone are worth every ounce of hassle.

Just don’t waste your money on the Giza light show. It’s underwhelming, hard to hear, and oddly dated. Watch a YouTube video of it later if you’re curious.

As Shakespeare once wrote in All’s Well That Ends Well:

“The web of our life is of a mingled yarn, good and ill together.”

Cairo is just that—a mingled yarn. Ancient and modern, beautiful and broken, frustrating and unforgettable. And I wouldn’t trade the experience for anything……but seriously, skip the light show.

The web of our life is a mingled yarn, good and ill together.

-All´s Well That Ends Well

This is NOT a replica. The entire museum was built around this particular statue.

Exploring the juxtaposition of the city of Jeddah, Saudi Arabia.

“Travelers never did lie, though fools at home condemn them.”

-The Tempest

Welcome, fellow swagsters, to a captivating journey through the vibrant city of Jeddah, Saudi Arabia. I know my title was a tad bit cheesy, but stay with me. ;-)

Often overshadowed and overlooked because of stereotypes about what this country might be like, Jeddah is a hidden gem that offers a unique blend of tradition and modernity. I actually made an Instagram reel that juxtaposes the two sides of this city. Join me as I recount my unforgettable visit to this city, where ancient history meets contemporary charm.

A tapestry of Culture and Tradition

Jeddah is a city that embraces its cultural heritage with open arms. Visiting the old, historical district will transport you back in time. The old buildings with their ornately carved shutters and wooden balconies tell a tale of this city’s past.

I found myself lost in the labyrinthine streets, discovering hidden gems like the Nasseef House, a beautifully restored 19th-century mansion that now serves as a museum, and also in the bustling atmosphere of Souq Al Alawi, a traditional market where shopkeepers enticed me with their colorful displays of spices, textiles, and traditional handicrafts. I actually bought some beautiful traditional Saudi shoes from a shopkeeper who inherited the shoe shop from his father.

A Gastronomic Delight:

No visit to Jeddah is complete without indulging in its expansive selection of cuisine.

Now, you can choose from traditional Saudi Arabian dishes like Kabsa (spiced rice with meat) and Mandi (slow-cooked meat and rice) to international flavors. Let me tell you, Jeddah's culinary scene is a true melting pot. I was SHOCKED to see a bevy of American restaurants there. It ranged from the Cheesecake Factory, to IHOP, to the Olive Garden, to P.F. Changs! To say I was flabbergasted, is an understatement. I actually even saw multiple Krispy Kreme doughnut stands!. Now, the above mentioned restaurants were just the tip of the iceberg. There were also the usual suspects ranging from McDonalds, Subway, KFC, and even Arby’s. Yes, you read that correctly! Arby’s. And many, many more! Now, I must say, that as a vegan, my pickings were slim. When I mentioned vegan dishes, I was often met with a lot of blank stares, flat out “NOs” with looks of confusion, and I even got offered chicken twice when I mentioned vegan. So, it was a bit of a struggle for me. However, if you aren’t vegan, then you’ll be in food paradise.

Really, Jeddah?

I found some vegan food at Paul’s Restaurant at the Red Sea Mall. The lentil soup was delicious.

A Shopper's Paradise.

No one is surprised when I say Jeddah is renowned for its vibrant souks, but when you type in “What to see and do in Jeddah” in your preferred search engine, various shopping malls appear. Since it was extremely hot during the day when I was there (temperatures reaching 40 degrees Celsius), people often only ventured out beginning at around 4:00 pm. (If I didn’t mention it earlier, I will mention it now, Jeddah comes alive at night. )Ok, back to the malls. For a more contemporary shopping experience, I explored the upscale malls like Red Sea Mall and Mall of Arabia, where international brands coexist with local boutiques. You can also by exclusive Saudi perfume and oils which will have you smelling aromatically unique.

CAUTION: If you choose to drive to the mall in the evening, be prepared to NOT find a parking spot. Also be prepared to wait for a VERY LONG time and possibly still not get a spot. Parking in malls in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia takes patience and more patience. (Sidebar: Driving, in general, in Jeddah may be dangerous for your health. I’ll leave it at that.)

Conclusion

My visit to Jeddah left me with unforgettable memories, as I discovered a city that seamlessly blends tradition and modernity. From the Red Sea to the Red Sea Mall, Jeddah offers a unique experience that is sure to captivate everyone. So, don’t hesitate to pack your bags and book your flight to go on your own adventure to experience the juxtaposition awaiting you Jeddah.

Thank you so much for your time. Join me on all my socials to see more. XOXO


Just Swaggin´ (Summer 2022)

Summer’s lease hath all too short a date.
— Sonnet 18

My best friend and I celebrating our 50th birthday in Greece. -July,2022

This summer turned out to be very memorable, and fun. It was the summer that I turned 50 years old. When they say “time flies” it is soooo true!

As always, I intend to have a great summer every year, however, sometimes I hit the mark, and other times I miss. This year, I exceeded it. Without going into details, I actually had one of the best summers ever. I hope your summer was also fun, and you made memories to last a lifetime. If you didn’t , that is also okay, because we can start over at any moment of the day, and make each moment great.


Thank you for stopping by! I really appreciate it.

XOXO

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My real life version of The Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood…

A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.
— William Shakespeare
Sherri and I at my Sweet Sixteen birthday party.

Sherri and I at my Sweet Sixteen birthday party.

There is a quote that says something like friends are your chosen family. OMG, how true is that. Many of us wish we could trade some of our family members in for a new and improved version of the same person….or take an even more drastic approach…..lbvs. However friends are different. We get to choose who we want to create memories and experience life with. And if you’re lucky, you and your best friend will have chosen each other. I have been lucky to find mine.

Over 40 years of friendship, that’s a rare gift! That’s how long my best friend and I have been friends. We used to live across the street from each other when we were just little girls. Fun fact: We’re actually just six days apart (I’m older), and were born in the same hospital. Our mothers were also friends before we were born. After we met, we were virtually inseparable. Even though we never went to the same schools growing up, we managed to do everything together. Where you saw one, you saw the other. “Oh…that must be Sherri and DeAnne”, or “DeAnne and Sherri are behind this”. It was like we were looked at as one entity instead of two distinct people.

In our very early twenties…..

In our very early twenties…..

Most people usually think of best friends partying and going out all of the time, and the two of us have definitely done our share of that. From teenagers to young adult women, we had a great time traipsing Chicago´s party scene…partying from the north to the southside…(we didn’t party too much on the west side….but we had our fun everywhere else…lol.) However, the extraordinary part of our friendship can be seen where we have gone through life’s major trials and triumphs supporting each other even after I moved halfway across the world. You see, throughout our friendship, there have been countless times where even though we were separated because of various stages in our lives, and because of tremendous distance, we have always reconnected like we have never been apart, never missing a beat, and many, many times wearing nearly the same outfit at the same time! :-)

In our forties……..

In our forties……..

The cool fact is, we’ve just always been in sync. Even though I’ve been living in Europe for years, this has not lessened our friend/sistership in the slightest. In fact, it has grown. We have the best conversations via text, email, and through these apps such as Voxer, etc.., that can last for days. And even though we’ve been the greatest fiends for over 40 years, we still find out new things about each other, and we support the evolution and growth that we have experienced. It’s a rare thing to find a person to accept you as you grow and evolve…..with your evolving beliefs about the world and the people in it…..and we have spectacularly done this, without ever missing a beat.

I started this blog with a quote….so I´ll end it the same way…..with a quote I found on Pinterest. “ Some people just “click”. There aren’t many people in life that you just click with, and when you find those people, you just don’t let them go.”

Message to my BFF:

They hate us ‘cause the ain´t us. :-)))


Thanks for stopping by! Leave a comment about you and your BFF!

XOXO

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